North Yorkshire fostering: Empty nesters urged to transform children’s lives and become foster carers

Their children left home – then they made a life-changing decision. Could you do what they did?

As of September this year, there were 484 children in foster care in the county.

Now people across North Yorkshire are being encouraged to consider fostering as the county looks to recruit more foster parents to provide safe, loving homes for children and young people in care.

Dispelling the myths

Fostering can be a hugely rewarding experience and North Yorkshire Council is keen to dispel some of the common myths that may prevent people from coming forward.

One group that can make particularly effective foster carers is “empty nesters” whose own children have grown up and left home. Many already have valuable parenting skills, life experience, patience and understanding that can make a significant difference to a child in need of support.

Judith Ellis became a foster carer in September 2018 after her children left home. In the last eight years, she and her husband, Martin, have fostered 24 children. Some staying for very short periods, some on several occasions and some for nearly two years. Ages range from six months to 17 years.

The 71-year-old said fostering has a heartwarming experience and has given her a new lease of life.

North Yorkshire Council’s executive member for children and families, Cllr Janet Sanderson, said: “Fostering is not a one-size-fits-all role. There is a range of options available to suit different lifestyles and circumstances. These can include short-term, long-term and respite fostering, as well as specialist arrangements such as parent and child fostering, where carers support a parent and their baby while helping them develop the skills and confidence needed to care for their child independently.”

There is also a misconception that people can be too old to foster. In reality, there is no upper age limit for foster carers and we welcome applications from people from all walks of life. What matters most is a person's ability to provide a stable, nurturing home and the commitment to helping children thrive.

North Yorkshire Council’s assistant director for children and families, Mel Hutchinson, said: “The need for foster carers has never been greater. Every year, children and young people across North Yorkshire require foster homes, and recruiting more local carers helps ensure they can remain close to their schools, friends, communities and support networks

“Empty nesters also bring a wealth of life experience, patience, and empathy - all qualities that make exceptional foster carers.

“If your children have flown the nest and your home feels quieter, fostering could be the most fulfilling way to bring joy and meaning back into your everyday life.”

Fostering is open to everyone – whether you’re single, married, in a relationship or part of a family. If you’re ready to start your fostering journey or would like to talk to someone, you can find more information at https://www.northyorks.gov.uk/fostering-north-yorkshire